You have just found the love of your life in the arms of someone else and they are happy together, this is the beginning of an emotional affair. This is one of the most painful things a person can experience in life. A wound can heal, a memory can be forgotten but it will take a lot of time to rebuild a heart. You may say it may be impossible for someone who has encountered such a tragedy to stand back up and look at the bright side of life again, you are wrong, it is not impossible, it is just so very hard.
Different persons have different reactions when their hearts get broken. Some just lose their self and let go of being who they are and they find no light in their lives and see no en to the suffering they feel. They find no reason to get out of bed or even take a bath because life has no more meaning to them.
Others take it out on their bodies and physically hurt themselves by not giving a damn to what happens, a guy looks for a fight without even a reason and so do some women but there are times they cut themselves just to feel that they are alive. They shut out everyone in their life and isolate themselves from the world to the point that people forget about them, this is what they want because they think if the world forgot about them then they can forget the one they love.
Others drown themselves in work so as to keep the mind busy and to not think about what happened. That is someone with a strong mind, who thinks that the best way of forgetting this problem is to find another problem and solve that one. This will only work only for a few month or years and eventually you have done every work possible and is left a great amount of free time, free time to think about the past.
There are also cases where that persons turns to poisonous substances for the body, some drink their problem away to the point of drunkenness that they forget everything but do stupid stuff that only add to the problem, some turn to drugs to numb the pain of the heart and feel so high that they become carefree but this will turn to addiction and it will kill your body slowly.
Those are just some example of the aftermath of an emotional affair, they all end to either being alone all your life or death. This should not be the case, it is very hard to get over this situation and it will take a lot of effort not just from your friends but also form yourself. You are thinking now easier said than done, but that is thinking negatively, if you were truly meant to be together than that would not have happened.
Give yourself time to recover, it may take month or even one year but that should be the limit, pick up the pieces of you and start a new. When you get over this huge wall in your life you will come out stronger and a bit wiser because of experience. There is a saying, when one door closes, another opens. When you have recovered you will look in the past without experiencing heart ache, this is a sign that you are over such troubles. Now you can just laugh at the aftermath of an emotional affair.
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Matthew Stanton writes articles about Emotional Affair and how it can greatly damage your marital commitments. Simply visit this site for information at http://www.relationshiptrust.com/
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