Do you need to build trust within your relationship and do you know the best ways to achieve that trust?
Predictability is very important even though you might think that this does not fit in with the common thinking that you need to create a bit of variety to keep the romance alive.Certainly by going to a new restaurant or giving a gift can be a pleasant surprise,most of all we need things to be consistent and regular for us to make our relationships work,so bear in mind that trust in a relationship is built on being reliable and dependable day in and day out.
Then you need to make sure that what you say to your partner is matched by your body language,so if you say you are happy but your face fails to express this, then your partner will not hear your words as they will see your face and the hear the tone in your voice and so cannot believe your words,as when the words match the message,then you will build that trust that you are striving for.
Next,you do need to have a basic belief in the ability of your partner, because if you do not you cannot have the trust in the relationship that you need,for if it`s communicated with love, the truth is never destructive,and even when you do not believe that your partner is competent at some things,or even anything,then you are breaking that trust in the relationship.
Do not keep secrets as secrets destroy the trust in a relationship, so be open and honest and always assume that everything you know will eventually come out. Secrets require enormous energy on your part to keep alive, and that is wasted energy that could be going into building the relationship.
Also do not be afraid to let your partner know what your needs are and not have them having to guess what you need,so just let them know. It is okay to be self-centered as long as you are not selfish,and if you are reluctant to express your needs, you might just go too far the other way and overwhelm your partner.Be prepared to say no because when your partner voices his or her needs, then that is a good thing, but you do not need to say yes to everything. A partner cannot respect you if you never say no and by refusing to be controlled by the will of the other person actually helps in building trust in a relationship.
Finally, always remember that you may unearth some hurtful memories when attempting to repair trust,but do not let these stop you from reaching your goal of building trust in your relationship, because it sometimes can be very true that "truth hurts", but by tackling these pains you are laying a solid base for the future and strenght of your relationship.
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